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MADISON, Wis. -- Negative relationships at work might be a big reason why so many Americans aren't happy with their jobs.
A new Gallup survey says the current number of truly engaged employees is only 29 percent, and 54 percent said they are basically checked out at work -- putting in time but not energy or passion into their job.
Do negative work relationships really matter? Some estimates put the losses of negative work environments at $300 billion a year. Although it's not that hard to identify if you have the problem, fixing it is where the real work begins, reports Pam Tauscher in Part II her special series on toxic workplaces.
Kerwin Steffen doesn't drive an ambulance but maybe he should because he responds to emergencies -- not behind the wheel, but behind the computer.
"Have you ever walked into a place, and you could just feel the dark cloud in that place?" Steffen said. "I always get an affirmative answer, and, sadly, some say, 'Yeah, it's where I go to work every day.'"
It is the lucky office where managers recognize the need to ask for help when relationships hit rock bottom.
"They were in tears when we were done when they recognized that they had inadvertently created such a toxic spirit in their group that some of them literally could not survive there," Steffen said, speaking of a group he worked with.
That spirit, Steffen said, determines whether companies and their employees are engaged or disinterested. And yet, most companies don't make any attempt at all to recognize it or manage it.
"It's made up of the human will of each person in the group, and unless you manage it, as I often tell groups, it plays you like a cheap piano and takes you down," Steffen said.
Many groups Steffen meets with are already down. First, Steffen brings everyone face to face -- something that has become rare in today's workplace.
"To confront someone that maybe you were just e-mailing is a difficult process," he said.
Denise Kornetzke turned to Steffen when she saw her office was in a tailspin. She credits Steffen with helping her staff learn to appreciate each other's strengths and weaknesses by learning more about different personality types.
"Part of it was we didn't have an appreciation for each other's strengths," said Kornetzke, a program manager for the Business Procurement Assistance Center. "We didn't know each other's strengths because we didn't talk to each other."
Steffen helped them look at what their preferred style was and then at the preferred style of the other members of the group, and how that affected their interactions, which in turn affected their collective spirit.
Now, things are improving in Kornetzke's group.
"We have team agreements," she said. "We uphold our team agreements -- we can't talk about each other when that person isn't present."
The transformation isn't instant, and it isn't permanent. It takes continuous effort because, by its nature, team spirit is constantly in a downward spiral.
"It's constantly going down unless we're lifting it up," Steffen said. "But it doesn't take that much. All it really takes is us looking at 'it,' saying, 'How is it today? Is it positive or negative, and what can we as a group do to lift it up?'"
"I don't think our situation before we did this was unlike any other work environment," Kornetzke said. "But it takes faith that this is the right course of action, and it takes everyone to believe in it on your team."
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